What you'll learn

  • Why people talk

  • The psychology of listening

  • How to listen

  • The therapeutic benefits of listening

  • Why you should listen

  • How listening makes you irresistible

Course Curriculum

See what's included in the course

    1. Introduction: Why and How to listen to your spouse

    2. Their opinion matters

    3. Set an appointment to Listen

    4. You show that you respect them

    5. The psychology of listening

    6. They will not cease talking until they feel heard by you

    7. Listen actively

    8. A word from Warren Buffet on Listening

    9. Listen without an agenda

    10. Make a commitment to listen

    11. Sort their thoughts

    12. To understand their viewpoint

    13. They are important to you

    14. Use Encouragers

    15. Lean forward

    16. People talk to connect

    17. To avoid an explosion

    18. The psychology of listening2

    19. The wonderful power of silence

    20. People talk to unburden their heart

    21. James 1 19 Be swift t hear

    22. Proverbs 2620

    23. Dwell with them in an understanding way 1 Peter 37

    24. Don’t answer a matter before you get the facts Proverbs 1813

    25. Proverbs 151

About this course

  • $47.00
  • 25 lessons
  • All audio lessons for your listening convenience

About the instructor

Author, Speaker, Marriage coach and Family Therapist

Founder & CEO of Fixing Marriages Academy, Inc. Trained Marriage & Family Therapist​; Trained Clinical Mental Health Counselor​; Theologian; 27 years counseling couples and families in and out of the USA​; Author: Book on Love, Sex and Relationships​ and E-book: Finding Love & Keeping it- Over 200 tips to ignite and maintain the flame of love in your relationship
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